Ending a bad love affair is probably one of the hardest things you can do, well maybe applied mathematics is just as hard but certainly no harder. Trying to think of the way to let someone down easy is not easy. There is no magic solution so don’t bother trying to find one. Never the less, this article will provide you with some tips that may help ease the pain a bit.
Chances are since you’re reading this you care not to hurt the other person too much. And unless the other person has turned really mean or hurtful you should try and end things gently. Don’t be cold and blunt, phrases like “It’s not you it’s me” just don’t cut it. State your reason for breaking up. You can at least be kind to the person who you cared to be with at one time.
When you come to sit the person down, try to talk about all the fun times you’ve had together. Tell this person about all the things that you find most appealing about them. Break ups don’t have to be all bad. No love affair is ever black and white; there are always lots of gray areas. Even in the relationships that manage to stay intact, there are good and bad times. You may be able to soften the blow a little by pointing out the good times in your relationship.
Now if you can’t remember any good times then you should try and remember some. Why else would you be trying to end the affair decently if the other person has not brought you joy some time in your life? When you mention the bad times; state your reasons for the need to break-up. . Explain yourself as clearly as possible, try not to give a bewildering explanation for the end of the relationship. Tell the person exactly why things are not working out between you both. This person deserves this much at least.
The best way to part with each other would be to take the whole responsibility of what had followed between you two on your own head. This would serve as a soothing balm on the other side. Do not hesitate to take on the entire blame on you and to unfold how and what caused this terrible situation. There is no doubt that the partner would not be too happy but you would make your task easy.
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